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Expect More !

One of the major drivers for hi-performance professionals is their hunger to ‘expect more’ from themselves. The constant urge to make it big in life, a consistent chatter in their mind about achieving something, making a mark, a solitude and resolve towards excellence, looking at oneself in high regard and capacity. These are all traits of persevering, motivated and driven individuals.

Seeking excellence is the way of life. It is conflux of your ambitions, experiences and achievements. However, these are the winning habits. One must cultivate this winner mindset with new skills and actions. One must consistently work to achieve and generate results and still continue to ‘expect more’

Happy Weekend Guys! Cheers!

Subconscious Mind Reprogramming Technique

Steps to Reprogramming your Subconscious Mind

Step 1: Thoughts- It is combination of ‘incoming’ thoughts that are opinions from others absorbed by you from the outside and the ‘outgoing’ thoughts which are processed thoughts by you and used for step 2.  

Step 2: Emotion- You attach your thoughts to emotions. This is part of human nature. It is entourage to making your thoughts legitimate. 

Step 3: Belief- Your thought + emotion will turn into a belief. These beliefs lay down the foundation of what is going to happen next with you. 

Step 4: RAS-  Reticular Activating System (RAS) is a neurological system that gets activated on the basis of your belief. In order to bring life to your thoughts, your brain looks for confirmation biases. You actively start looking for things that ‘confirm’ what you believe in. This is automatic. You will get to this unknowingly, unintentionally, and mostly sub-consciously. 

Step 5: On reaching the confirmation or validation stage, your belief gets conviction through confirmations you seek and find with time. Convictions are strongest form of ‘beliefs’ and they form the basis of your approach towards life. 

Reprogramming: You need to disrupt at Step 1. You need to change your thoughts with correct data feed. Second, you need to attached positive emotions to those thoughts. As they grown into beliefs, you need make those beliefs stronger by consistent reinforcements. As RAS gets activate, you will be automatically programmed for confirmation and convictions. 

And this will change your life ! Cheers

Optimum Negotiation Strategy – STOP!

Disagreements in life can happen anywhere, anytime and with anyone. What’s important is where to pull the plug and STOP.

People are there who go all out to prove their point. During the process, there is a high possibility that such self-righteous people, end up losing the original intended plot of the conversation leading to nowhere.

Its important hence to keep track of the correspondence and STOP . It is a good strategy thus far for amicable negotiations and constructive verbittle between two or more parties.

Therefore, guys, STOP when its needed. No point shouting it loud. It will never bring in consensus or closure.

Silence is the best recipe..at times. Cheers.

Judgemental- Naah !

You should judge people with what they do TODAY and not by what they did in the PAST. Infact, you should never judge anyone to do the least. Self obsession and mindfulness are best strategies. Become the best version of you. Focus inward.

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Radical Candor – In Face Yet Humble !

Radical Candor..pretty awesome huh. I have done it for years. My dad has been doing it with us for years. I think it is a very effective and it is definitely a progressive people management strategy.

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Survival Impact

Incredible things happen to your mind when you survive the worse. You get programmed to boot neurons and activate chemical responses in your brain that just changes how you see the world and recaliberates your way of wordly response.

This bio hack generates incredible life force for you to screw ordinary and contribute impactfully. Release of neuro toxins such as dopamine, serotonin improves cognitive responses.

You breadth different. You behave different. You act different. People see a new found you and that may be a incredible you.

Only thing that matters thereafter is sustainability.

Problem solving in business? I Don’t!

Majority of us these days who run businesses claim/try to solve a problem. But I don’t think that is the case always. At least, I don’t!

Your business was started as there was a perceived demand for a specific product or service. There could be those, who just went on for a cup of coffee with a friend, an idea germinated among them and boom, you think you got it right and had therefore taken the plunge.

But in most cases, there is no problem solving happening. As goes the jazz, you are being influenced to think in a certain way..the problem solving way.

Guys, let me put it straight. I do not solve any problem in my business. Business is plain economics that includes demand and supply across the value chain.

So if you run a trading business, you are just buying and selling for profit. As a manufacturer of goods, you are just producing and selling a product for which a market already exists in most cases. To the best, you are just filling the demand supply gap.

But there are exceptions. The market makers and the IT & Tech industry really solve problems. Market makers do concept selling where they disrupt or just try and sell a niche product. IT & Tech as an industry runs on solutions, customization and efficiencies. This could be a place for problem solving.

But thats about it!

I believe, problem solving is just a buzz word which is going around these days in the business community which has actually been imported from science (IT/Tech) lead industries to all others.

Till the time, you are able to sell, make bucks, do not worry about solving a problem. There will always be demand for a tooth paste, birthday cake and a BP monitor and let me remind you, there isn’t any problem solving happening here.

So don’t wonder what problem you are solving. It is not necessary to always transgress to a higher purpose or meaning. Simple meanings to business also go a long way.

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